~ noticing the not-so-noticeable ~ aligning as a connected-individual ~ in a space called wholeness ~
I’ve always noticed what others overlook — with an eye for reading between the lines.
From a young age, I was more interested in how things were arranged and the creativity involved in multi-purposing.
Looking back, that impulse was doing quiet, foundational work. It was building a felt-sense for perspective shifts, for re-prioritizing purpose, and for noticing when something had come into coherence — not because it was new, but because it finally made sense.
As life unfolded, this way of thinking became a kind of root system.
Themes like pattern, motif, archetype, and symbol lived quietly in the background of my life — often treated as abstract or literary — before revealing themselves as practical frameworks for navigating real situations. Over time, this way of seeing showed up naturally across teaching, the arts, language, and living spaces, and proved most valuable during moments of challenge and change.
I would recognize the same backstage role in unexpected places.
Much of how I work has been shaped through adventurous years of parenting and mentoring a neurodiverse highly sensitive — an experience that requires on-going learning how to read environments, emotional undercurrents, wellness ties, and unspoken needs with care and intuitive savvy — while personally weathering the shifting sands.
I noticed how often life felt flattened. Going through the motions, overwhelmed, or too tired to notice more, which can feel two-dimensional — like moving through experience rather than being in conversation with it. Over time, I came to recognize that what was missing wasn’t effort or information, but a way of noticing.
This way of seeing has become a transferable skill.
I learned that having tools to notice the not-so-noticeable isn’t about invalidating what’s showing up in your life.
It’s about recognizing it differently — so you can navigate it by noticing how to direct your attention, respond more than react, to integrate what it’s teaching and alchemize lived experience into wisdom that actually fuels where you’re going next.
That shift in resonance changes everything.
And it’s the heart of what Wholistified Living is about.
I bring you compassionate wisdom…from my journey…for yours.
If we haven’t yet met, I’m Nicole.
I teach everyday-metaphysics in simple, creative, illuminating ways.
Maybe you’ve notice lately how Time is making up its own rules. Oceans of digital information flood our days. Mountains of social media posts have a legit counter-perspective on anything.
In a world where almost anything is possible now, metaphysic-discernment is key.
My work helps build capacity for tuning in — not to more noise, but to the resonance that actually matters for you.
There are many ways to enter this work: online or in-person classes, posts, workshops, or one-to-one mentoring.
You can choose your own adventure.
Regardless of format, my process remains the same.
I work mosaically.
I listen for key words, idea fragments, notice emerging patterns, and help language land before it’s over-edited or lost. Often, the most meaningful structure appears in the moment — not because it was planned, but because the conditions were right.
This is where the arts, connected spaces, and lived experience meet you where you’re at.
Am I speaking your language?
I welcome you to explore around here some more or take a moment to connect and begin a conversation.
(Behind the scenes: years of study, mentorship, certification, and lived application across multiple disciplines quietly inform this work. → )